Dr. Finlayson-Fife's NEWEST COURSE! 

When sex feels pressured, disconnected, or routine, it can quietly undermine the heart of a marriage. Sex Worth Wanting helps couples move beyond frustration and avoidance into intimacy that feels alive, soulful, and mutually desirable. Whether you’re discouraged and stuck or simply curious about what more is possible, this course will show you how to bring greater ease, playfulness, and passion into your sexual relationship.

THIS COURSE IS IN DEVELOPMENT—new sessions will be released weekly until the full course is available to you! 

Course Details

For many couples, sex feels like duty, pressure, or something to avoid altogether. For others, intimacy feels “good enough,” but they long for something deeper. Wherever you find yourselves, Sex Worth Wanting will help you create a sexual relationship that is more connected, playful, and genuinely fulfilling.

This course is perfect for couples who:

  • Feel stuck, pressured, or discouraged in their intimate life

  • Experience friendship without passion

  • Struggle with mismatched desire or emotional distance

  • Have a solid marriage but want to spark greater passion and connection

  • Want to move beyond obligation into real attraction and desire

Through this course, you will learn how to:

  • Break free from patterns of pressure, avoidance, or “good enough”

  • Settle your own anxiety so sex feels freer, more authentic, and more playful

  • Cultivate anticipation and attraction that reignites passion

  • Replace routine with genuine connection that nourishes both partners

  • Build a sexual dynamic that strengthens your bond, your confidence, and your friendship


Whether you’re trying to revive a discouraged sexual dynamic or enrich an already good relationship, Sex Worth Wanting offers a hopeful and practical path forward. With clarity and compassion, Dr. Finlayson-Fife will guide you toward intimacy that deepens trust, strengthens desire, and makes sex something you both truly want.

All course purchases include:

Printable (or Hard-copy) Course Workbook

Each course purchase includes access to a series of on-demand video lectures AND a digital course workbook. Each workbook includes course outlines, assignments, and resources to push your growth and development further. 

While you can print your own workbook free of charge, we recommend purchasing our bound workbooks. A bound workbook allows you to keep your notes and assignment responses in one place, while easily reviewing lesson concepts.  

Please select your preference (online or booklet) in the purchase bar above. The workbook will be shipped within three business days.

One Full Year of Access to Online Course and Materials

Your online course will be available to you until it is either retired or replaced, with guaranteed access for one year from the date of purchase. 

Reviews From Course Participants

  • This course gave us a hope for both of our futures and our relationship together that I could not have imagined!! I feel like we really have a chance at our marriage (and life and honestly love, in a way that I didn’t even know existed or was possible), I feel so hopeful! Thank you sooo much!

    — M.M.
  • This course was so beneficial to us! I’ve come away with more accountability for my own self development, greater gratitude and grace for my spouse and a greater feeling of freedom, possibility and excitement for our sexual relationship.

    — B.E.
  • I really enjoyed the class. It was a beautiful blend of spirituality and sexuality. My wife put it best when she said, "this is the type of thing they should teach as a required class in school, it's more important than math or history and would have a more lasting effect on their lives". She was not saying that math is a waste but rather that it's that important. I would suggest this course to anyone that wants a good marriage either now or in the future, and especially if you want one eternally.

    — S.M.
  • This course was such an incredible experience for my spouse and I!  We were able to take a step back and see what hasn’t been working for us…with a commitment to open up and be more honest with one another moving forward.  Dr. Finlayson-Fife uses her expertise and research to get to the heart of what really is missing when sex is not joyful.   We highly recommend this course to every married couple!

    — P.K.
  • After following Dr. Jennifer closely for 6 years I thought I had a fairly good understanding of her content. This course, however, showed me that many of the phrases and ideas I knew so well had deeper and broader implications and applications in my life. It left me wanting more but also with a fresh lens to use in revisiting her material so I could make old things new in a way that I hope will help me get unstuck around these concepts. Thank you, Dr. Jennifer!

    — N.S.
  • My husband and I are working through an extremely difficult time in our relationship that's not fully resolved so I wasn't sure how it would be but JFF touched on things I personally needed to hear that really inspired me and helped me feel stronger despite our current circumstances. I needed that more than I realized and I'm super grateful for this course.

    — T.M.
  • This is incredible material and has given us some important concepts to think about and discuss together. We are shifting our thinking and doing things differently because of what we are learning.

    Thank you for creating and sharing this!

    — A.T.

Frequently Asked Questions

Yes! While these courses were designed with LDS couples in mind, the topics covered and content taught in each course is applicable to all couples, regardless of religious affiliation. 

If you’re not sure where to start, feel free to take our Course Match-Making Quiz to get a custom recommendation based on your needs.

The outlines and assignments related to your course materials can either be printed from your course portal OR sent to you as a bound booklet. This bound booklet makes it easy to keep track of your notes and self-reflections as you go through the course material. If you are taking a couples' course, we recommend purchasing two booklets; however, many people use one booklet together.

Once you purchase one or more courses, you will be emailed a login to our course portal within 1 business day. Your digital course workbook will be delivered with the course portal login. If you order a physical course workbook, it will ship within three business days.

Only one course purchase is required per household. You can share the course with anyone who lives with you.

Each course has been extensively refined to meet the needs of couples, individuals, and parents. Because of this, rarely do students request a refund. Due to the overwhelming majority who find great value from each course, refunds are generally unavailable. (We do make occasional exceptions for extreme circumstances on a case-by-case basis, although we reserve the right to deny a refund for any reason).

We provide support resources throughout your course experience to answer any questions and assist you with the course if you are having any trouble. If you feel that a different course would fit your needs, course exchanges can be granted on a case-by-case basis.