Learn the Art of Loving and gain more confidence in yourself as an intimate parter.  Forge a relationship with your spouse filled with mutual pleasure and genuine connection. 

This course explores elements of LDS culture that undermine male sexual integrity and confidence while underscoring theological principles that support embodied desire and loving sex.

The Art of Loving Course will be available to ALL in the Winter of 2021.  I will be teaching two Art of Loving courses this Fall (2020), but restricting enrollment to 35 men in each group.  To be eligible for these Fall online courses (via Webex, beginning September 19th for group 1 and September 25th for group 2), you must have taken at least one of our online courses already.  To demonstrate interest, please use the link above to add your email to the notification list.  We will send you an email with costs and enrollment details, if there is room for you in the course.  

Course Details

Join the Art of Loving course, designed for LDS men, to become more confident in yourself as an intimate partner. This course unpacks the damaging messages offered to men about masculinity and sexuality that work against sexual self-confidence, trustworthiness, and mutual desire.  

The Fall 2020 course group 1 will take place September 19, Oct 3, Oct 10, Oct 24, Nov 7, Nov 14, Nov 21, Dec 5 at 5:00 p.m. Mountain Time via Webex. Each class will last between 75 and 120 minutes. The classes will be recorded, but not distributed to participants.  If an attendee has to miss a class or two they can contact us to gain temporary access to the recorded missed class.


The Fall 2020 course group 2 will take place Friday evenings, beginning Sep. 25th, then Oct. 2nd, Oct. 9th, Oct.23rd, Nov. 6th, Nov. 13th, Nov. 20th, and Dec. 4th, beginning at 6:30 PM Mountain Time. Each class will last between 75 and 120 minutes.


This course is perfect for those who are:

  • Unsatisfied in their current sexual and
    marital relationship.
  • Frustrated in the loneliness of not being desired.
  • Struggling with pornography use.
  • Confused about the compatibility of
    sex and masculinity with spirituality and goodness.
  • Wanting more confidence in their own desirability.
  • Hoping to be at greater peace with their sexuality.

By committing to this course, and working through its concepts, you can address your role in unsatisfying sexual interactions, change sexual behaviors at odds with your integrity, and grow into a more desirable, confident sexual partner. 

After years of counseling men and women, Dr. Finlayson-Fife has uncovered the beliefs that work against men's capacity for intimate sex, as well as the concepts and behaviors that foster personal strength, trustworthiness, and deeper capacity for sexual connection.

By working through the life-changing concepts in the Art of Loving course, not only will you be a source of strength to your emotional and sexual relationship, but you will experience deeper peace with yourself and your sexuality.

All course purchases include:

Six months of Office Hours with Dr. Finlayson-Fife

Office Hours give course participants an opportunity to ask Dr. Finlayson-Fife questions anonymously while working through the course materials.

One Full Year of Access to Online Course and Materials

Every course purchase includes a minimum of one year access to the self-paced course (and six months of Office Hours).  Time extensions are available, if desired.

Printable Course Workbook

Each course purchase includes access to on-demand course trainings AND a printable course workbook. Each workbook includes course outlines, assignments, and resources to push you further in your growth and development. 

(If you’d prefer a physical, bound workbook, each physical booklet costs an additional $15 and will be shipped to you within three business days after course purchase).

Frequently Asked Questions

Yes! While these courses were designed with LDS couples in mind, the topics and advice given in each course apply to any couple.

If you’re not sure where to start, feel free to take our Course Match-Making Quiz to get a custom recommendation based on your needs.

Every course purchase includes access to what we call, “Office Hours.” Office Hours give course participants an opportunity to ask Dr. Finlayson-Fife their questions anonymously while working through their course material. Plus, you can email Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s team for additional support during the course.

The outlines and assignments related to your course materials can either be printed from your course portal OR sent to you as a bound booklet.  This bound booklet makes it easy to keep track of your notes and self-reflections as you go through the course material.  If you are taking a couples' course, we recommend purchasing two booklets; however, many people use one booklet together.

Once you purchase one or more courses, you will be emailed a login to our course portal within 1 business day. Your Digital Course Workbook will be delivered with the course portal login. If you order a physical Course Workbook, it will ship within three days.

Only one course purchase is required per household. You can share the course with anyone who lives with you.

Each course has been extensively refined to meet the needs of couples, individuals, and parents. Because of this, rarely do students request a refund. Due to the overwhelming majority who find great value from each course, refunds are generally unavailable. (We do make occasional exceptions for extreme circumstances on a case-by-case basis, although we reserve the right to deny a refund for any reason).

We provide support resources throughout your course experience to answer any questions and assist you with the course if you are having any trouble. If you feel that a different course would fit your needs, course exchanges can be granted on a case-by-case basis.